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4 Alternative Rock Songs to Jam to After a Particularly Rough Breakup

Country music and blues tend to have the very best breakup songs to mope over. However, alternative rock has produced quite a few excellent songs for lamenting a broken relationship. Letโ€™s take a look at just four of our favorite alternative rock breakup songs!

1. โ€œThe One I Loveโ€ by R.E.M.

This famous R.E.M. hit is often misunderstood. Due to the title, many listeners think that the song is a dedication of sorts to the people we love. In fact, quite a few couples through the years have used this song as their โ€œfirst danceโ€ tune at weddings.

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Unfortunately for them, this song isnโ€™t about new, budding love at all. The song is actually about the people weโ€™ve left in the dust and the partners that have been used to entertain a flight of fancy in lieu of serious commitment. That notion isnโ€™t exactly comforting, but a song like โ€œThe One I Loveโ€ can help you deal with a particularly nasty breakup.

2. โ€œBlackโ€ by Pearl Jam

Who doesnโ€™t love a little bit of grunge when theyโ€™re feeling down? This Pearl Jam classic is a particularly angry and vengeful song about a breakup and the confusion that follows. If youโ€™re feeling very bitter at this point in your breakup, give this one a listen. The MTV Unplugged version is quite beautiful, too.

3. โ€œPictures Of Youโ€ by The Cure

Robert Smith is a master at writing love songs. Heโ€™s more or less been with his wife since they were 14 years old, after all. Nobody knows longstanding love quite like him. However, heโ€™s a dynamic songwriter who can also write a sad lost-love song or two as well. โ€œPictures Of Youโ€ isnโ€™t exactly a breakup song, but it is a moody and mystical tune that can soothe your soul if youโ€™re lamenting the loss of a relationship.

4. โ€œNobodyโ€™s Baby Nowโ€ by Nick Cave And The Bad Seeds

When it comes to alternative rock breakup songs, some might not see this track as particularly alternative. However, โ€œNobodyโ€™s Baby Nowโ€ by Nick Cave And The Bad Seeds, as well as the whole of the 1994 album Let Love In, are excellent post-punk gothic rock pieces of work that definitely lean toward alternative rock. This specific song is a breakup gem about losing the one you love and being stuck with the question, โ€œWhy?โ€

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