Society held women of the 1950s and 60s, particularly in the more conservative world of country music, to high expectations to be doting, subservient, and modest. Male country music artists helped perpetuate these stereotypes by constantly singing about women breaking their hearts by being untrue and unloving. But starting in the 1950s with artists like Kitty Wells, women began pushing back on this narrative.
Whether talking to their husbands, fellow women, or the general public, these female country songs are full of attitude and just as hilarious and empowering even decades later.
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โFist Cityโ by Loretta Lynn
Loretta Lynn has a wellspring of sassy songs to choose from. But a personal favorite of this writerโs is โFist Cityโ. In a world where the men are free to philander and roam, the dynamics between the women who are at home with the kids and the women on the other end of that philandering can grow especially tense. Should the blame be more on the men? Yes. Is that always what happens? No.
Lynnโs 1968 track โFist Cityโ is a hilarious warning to any woman trying to get her man to wander while she is on the road. โYouโve been making your brags around town that youโve been loving my man / But the man I love, when he picks up trash, he puts it in a garbage can.โ
โIt Wasnโt God Who Made Honky Tonk Angelsโ by Kitty Wells
Kitty Wells responded directly to Hank Thompsonโs โWild Side Of Lifeโ with her 1952 track โIt Wasnโt God Who Made Honky Tonk Angelsโ. Using the same melody and verse-chorus structure, Wells pushes back on Thompsonโs claim that women are to blame for most heartache. It was a bold assertion in 1952. And considering the track became the first female country song to hit No. 1 on Billboard, it was a bold assertion that the women of the world were eager to hear.
โItโs a shame that all the blame is on us women / Itโs not true that only you men feel the same / From the start, most every heart thatโs ever broken / was because there always was a man to blame.โ
โTwice the Lovinโ (In Half the Time)โ by Jean Shepard
Jean Shepard released her first single on Capitol Records in February 1953. Neither the A-side, โCrying Steel Guitar Waltzโ, nor the B-side, โTwice The Lovinโ (In Half The Time)โ, made it to the chartsโdespite the label co-billing her with a man, steel guitarist Speedy West, to boost sales. Nevertheless, the song remains one of the funnier female country songs full of red-hot attitude and unapologetic sass (with a little bit of innuendo baked into the refrain).
โYou didnโt think I was so smart, you said I was no good / You even tried to break my heart, you done everything you could / But someday, youโll have to learn a stitch in time saves nine / Iโll go where I can get twice the loving, baby, in half the time.โ
โHarper Valley P.T.A.โ by Jeannie C. Riley
Jeannie C. Rileyโs one-hit wonder from 1968, โHarper Valley P.T.A.โ, was more a commentary on the societyโs expectations of women than a message to any one person, like the previous three songs. Riley dismantles stereotypes and calls out the Harper Valley Parent Teacher Associationโs hypocrisy for worrying about her clothes and social life while they themselves are dealing with alcoholism, affairs, and more.
โWell, Mr. Harper couldnโt be here โcause he stayed too long at Kellyโs Bar again / and if you smell Shirley Thompsonโs breath, youโll find she had a little nip of gin / then you have the nerve to tell me that you think that as a mother, Iโm not fit / Well, this is just a little Peyton Place, and youโre all Harper Valley hypocrites.โ
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