When looking back at our younger years, itโs the expanse of time, not the time itself, that tends to hit the hardest. Our wistful nostalgia is less for the trends and habits (good and bad) we followed in our teens and twenties and more for the years that have seemingly flown by without us being fully aware of them. Music has a way of highlighting that great, scary, exhilarating, and humbling expanse, even if the songs themselves werenโt distinct parts of our lives. Take, for example, these five poignant, reflective, and, in some cases, rebellious songs from 1969 that can transport you back to a younger version of yourselfโbut with a little more hindsight and clarity this time.
โBoth Sides, Nowโ by Joni Mitchell
When weโre young, itโs easy to assume that things will get easier when weโre older. Once we get old, we realize that we donโt really feel all that much different. On and on the cycle goes into our golden years. Joni Mitchellโs โBoth Sides, Nowโ reflects on these paradoxical perspectives in a beautifully moving way.
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โIโve looked at life from both sides now, from win and lose and still somehow / Itโs lifeโs illusions I recall / I really donโt know life at all.โ
โThe Puppy Songโ by Harry Nilsson
Harry Nilssonโs 1969 hit, โThe Puppy Songโ, might seem like one of those silly, nonsensical songs that are meant to entertain, not invoke deep introspection. However, if you take a closer look at the lyrics, itโs hard not to become wistful. At face value, the song might be just about a puppy. But the puppy is a placeholder for something that makes us feel seen, loved, and happy. It could be anything.
โDreams are nothinโ more than wishes / and a wish is just a dream you wish to come true.โ
โFortunate Sonโ by Creedence Clearwater Revival
Part of what makes looking back on our younger years so nostalgic is the hindsight that only time and age can provide. It becomes easier to see the ways in which you had to struggle to get to where you are today. CCRโs โFortunate Sonโ expands on this idea in the context of war. But in a broader sense, the song is about privilegeโand making do without it when necessary.
โIt ainโt me, it ainโt me / I ainโt no millionaireโs son, no / It ainโt me, it ainโt me / I ainโt no fortunate one, no.โ
โYou Canโt Always Get What You Wantโ by The Rolling Stones
In that same vein of time-gifted hindsight is one of the most iconic songs of the 1960s, let alone just 1969: โYou Canโt Always Get What You Wantโ by The Rolling Stones. Life is tough. Sometimes, looking back on our younger years makes us wish that we had done something differently to get different results. This classic Stones track reminds us that everything happens for a reason.
โYou canโt always get what you want / But if you try sometimes, well you might find / You get what you need.โ
โGolden Slumbers / Carry That Weightโ by The Beatles
The Beatlesโ B-side medley on Abbey Road is full of impressively catchy and poignant musical tidbits. Thereโs something particularly moving about โGolden Slumbersโ into โCarry That Weightโ. Back-to-back, these songs are as hopeful as they are exhausted and as optimistic as they are cynical. Just like adulthood.
โOnce there was a way to get back homeward / Once there was a way to get back home / Sleep, pretty darling, do not cry.โ
โBoy, youโre gonna carry that weight / carry that weight a long time.โ
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