Got my hands around her neck / But it’s done with respect / I’ve had a few, but no other / Has the love of my mother sings Jon Bon Jovi on “My First Guitar” from Bon Jovi‘s 16th album Forever. The story is a familiar one for Bon Jovi, one that marked a significant transition for him as a serious musician.
In 1978, just six years before the band released their self-titled debut, Bon Jovi sold his out-of-tune Univox Stratocaster clone for $100 so he could save enough to buy a real Fender guitar.
“There was a kid that I sold it to when I was a teen,” Bon Jovi tells American Songwriter. “I guess I was 17, 18, and aspiring to buy a Fender guitar. I sold him this Univox and didn’t see the guy for 45 years.”
Decades later, Bon Jovi reconnected with the original buyer through a volunteer at his JBJ Soul Kitchen, the non-profit community restaurant he founded with his wife Dorothea in 2011. “A volunteer at the Soul Kitchen somehow knew him and connected with him and told me about it, and we had him come down,” said Bon Jovi. “They said that the guy who originally bought the guitar is willing to give it back.”
Videos by American Songwriter
Bon Jovi offered him some money and another signed guitar for the trade-off. “He said ‘It’s where it belongs,’” said Bon Jovi. “And he showed up with the same cardboard case, the same five strings—it only had five strings on it—so I got it back. And I picked it up in the rotten tuning that it barely had, and I wrote that song.”
In a recent interview with Howard Stern, Bon Jovi says that the sixth string was broken when he sold it. “I don’t think the kid ever played it,” said Bon Jovi.
The guy who returned his guitar to him was still living in his hometown, and Bon Jovi met his daughter. “I guess he stayed there throughout his life, and he became a police officer and has grown children,” shared Bon Jovi. “And this beautiful occurrence happened.”
Photo: Emma McIntyre/Getty Images for The Recording Academy
More Latest Music News & Stories
-
Musician Bruce Springsteen performs during the opening of the Obama Presidential Center in the Jackson Park neighborhood of Chicago, Illinois, US, on Thursday, June 18, 2026. Intended as a celebration of the progress embodied by the nation's first Black leader, its Juneteenth unveiling comes at a time when his agenda – and broader diversity initiatives – are wilting from a decade of concerted attack. Photographer: Talia Sprague/Bloomberg via Getty Images -
Photo by Fin Costello/Redferns -
SEATTLE, WASHINGTON – DECEMBER 11: Mike McCready of Pearl Jam performs onstage with Thunderpussy at The Showbox on December 11, 2025 in Seattle, Washington. (Photo by Mat Hayward/Getty Images) -
HOUSTON, TX – FEBRUARY 02: Luke Bryan answers holds a Super Bowl LI football during the Super Bowl LI Pregame press conference on February 02, 2017, at the George R Brown Convention Center in Houston, TX. (Photo by Rich Graessle/Icon Sportswire via Getty Images) -
NEW YORK, NY – JUNE 15: Abe Olman Publishing Award winner, Caroline Bienstock poses backstage at the Songwriters Hall Of Fame 48th Annual Induction and Awards at New York Marriott Marquis Hotel on June 15, 2017 in New York City. (Photo by Larry Busacca/Getty Images for Songwriters Hall Of Fame) -
Carrie Underwood at the "Alan Jackson: The Last Show" concert special red carpet held at Nissan Stadium on June 27, 2026 in Nashville, Tennessee. (Photo by Jamie Schramm/Variety via Getty Images) -
INDIO, CALIFORNIA – APRIL 25: (FOR EDITORIAL USE ONLY) (NOT TO BE LICENSED FOR ANY STANDALONE OR SPECIAL INTEREST BOOK PUBLISHING USE CONCERNING THE COACHELLA MUSIC FESTIVAL AND/OR STAGECOACH MUSIC FESTIVAL) Singer Gavin Adcock performs on the Palomino Stage during day 2 of Stagecoach Festival at Empire Polo Club on April 25, 2026 in Indio, California. (Photo by Scott Dudelson/Getty Images for Stagecoach) -
Photo by Gilbert Flores/Variety via Getty Images