Behind The Song

The Iconic Fleetwood Mac Lyric Stevie Nicks Said Lindsey Buckingham Took the Wrong Way

Even musicians as famous and successful as Stevie Nicks and Lindsey Buckingham deal with the all-too-ordinary problem of navigating misunderstandings during romantic rows, as one of the bandโ€™s iconic songs, โ€œDreams,โ€ demonstrates. The career-defining track from Rumours was one of many songs on the album that pertained to relationships within the band, including Buckingham and Nicksโ€™ tumultuous breakup.

For Nicks, โ€œDreamsโ€ was a song about acceptance and perseverance. For Buckingham, well, it might have seemedโ€ฆnot about that.

Videos by American Songwriter

Stevie Nicks Wrote This Song for Lindsey Buckingham

Fleetwood Macโ€™s entire post-1975 discography is an excellent example of transforming real-life scenarios and relationships into classic rock hits. Stevie Nicks and Lindsey Buckingham were both prolific writers who contributed nearly all of the songs on the bandโ€™s seminal 1977 album Rumours. (The former folk-rock duoโ€™s first album with the band from 1975 was about half of Nicksโ€™ and Buckinghamโ€™s compositions.)

Because Buckingham and Nicks were also going through a tempestuous breakup, many of the songs on Rumours have to do with interpersonal drama: โ€œDreams,โ€ โ€œNever Going Back Again,โ€ โ€œGo Your Own Way,โ€ and โ€œI Donโ€™t Want to Know,โ€ to name a few. Some songs ruffled feathers more than others. As Nicks explained in a late 1980s interview, โ€œWell, โ€˜Dreamsโ€™ was written in the midst of Lindseyโ€™s and my breakup. At the end of it, when it says, when the rain washes you clean, youโ€™ll know, was very much meant to mean, โ€˜We will be okay. Weโ€™ll get through this.โ€™โ€

Nicks wrote โ€œDreamsโ€ as a confirmation that, yes, she and Buckingham were breaking up. โ€œI understand he doesnโ€™t feel the same way about the way I feel about it. But that is what, in truth, it was written about. No matter what happens to Lindsey and I as a couple, this band will go on. Weโ€™ll see it through, and weโ€™ll be all right. He seems to take it a different way.โ€

The Track Mightโ€™ve Been Fleetwood Macโ€™s Only Chance at Survival

Musicians have notoriously touchy egos, and breakups can exacerbate this acute sensitivity. While sharing songs with one another in Fleetwood Mac put Stevie Nicks and Lindsey Buckingham at risk of offending one another so badly that the band couldnโ€™t continue, Nicks would later argue that the tracks were the only way the band could survive. โ€œDreamsโ€ was a response to Buckinghamโ€™s โ€œGo Your Own Way,โ€ which accused Nicks of shacking up with other people, much to the songwriterโ€™s chagrin. But as she told the BBC in 1998, โ€œAs a songwriter, I have to respect that heโ€™s gonna write about whatโ€™s happening to him. And so am I.โ€

โ€œI could never say to him, you know, โ€˜Back off! Stop writing songs about me.โ€™ That was his life then, and thatโ€™s when the best songs are written. It doesnโ€™t really matter who breaks up with who at that point, thatโ€™s when everybody writes the best songs. And thatโ€™s what happened on Rumours. I mean, maybe we would have killed each other if we hadnโ€™t have been able to write those songs, you know. If we hadnโ€™t have been able to put that energy into the music and rise above it that way, then maybe we would have just gone totally freaked out on each other.โ€

Photo by Lester Cohen/Getty Images for NARAS